365 Days of Becoming by Julie Tomlinson

Behind the Book:
A Conversation with the Author

What inspired you to write this book?

365 Days of Becoming is a fictional memoir—rooted in my own life, with storylines that blend truth and creative embellishment. Some moments are real, while others are heightened for the page. Writing this book was an incredibly therapeutic process, allowing me to heal from my own journey so far, rediscover who I am, and gain clarity on where I want to go. More than anything, I wrote it as an act of self-liberation—to honor my growth, embrace my truth, and hopefully inspire others to do the same.

Who is this book for?

My ideal reader is a woman in her 30s and beyond—someone who enjoys women’s fiction, contemporary romance, and stories of self-discovery. While 365 Days of Becoming centers on a later-in-life lesbian journey, its themes of healing, personal growth, and finding one’s true self are universal. LGBTQ readers will see themselves reflected in Reilly’s experience, but the story is broad enough to resonate with anyone who has ever felt lost, craved change, or longed to step more fully into who they are.

What makes your book unique in its genre?

Unlike a stereotypical sapphic romance, 365 Days of Becoming dives deep into emotional growth, vulnerability, and the complexities of self-exploration. It’s more than just a love story (with self or otherwise)—it’s a journey of healing, identity, and learning to embrace life on one’s own terms. At just 169 pages, it’s a compelling and fast-paced read—perfect for an airplane ride—yet it lingers long after the final page.

Does your book align with any current social, cultural, or industry trends?

Yes, 365 Days of Becoming aligns with current social and cultural trends, particularly the growing awareness of how societal pressures impact women’s confidence and sense of self. Many women today struggle with people-pleasing tendencies, feeling the weight of external expectations while trying to navigate their own desires and identity. Reilly’s journey reflects this cultural shift—one where women are reclaiming their autonomy, setting boundaries, and prioritizing their own growth and fulfillment. Her story resonates with anyone seeking to break free from old patterns and embrace a more authentic, self-empowered way of living.

If you had to describe your book in three words, which would you choose?

Raw, riveting, and relatable. This book doesn’t shy away from the messy, unfiltered reality of personal evolution—it embraces it. Through Reilly’s journey, readers will see themselves reflected in the struggles, the growth, and the moments of vulnerability that come with choosing to step into one’s truth. It’s a story that will resonate with anyone who has ever questioned their path, longed for change, or wondered what it truly means to become.

Backcover Synopsis

One year. No dating. Can she really do this?

For as long as she can remember, Reilly has been a people-pleaser. And somewhere along the way, she lost herself. Now in her 30s, still learning to embrace her later-in-life lesbian identity, she realizes she hasn’t been single since high school. So she makes a bold choice: one year with no dating. No distractions. Just her.

The goal? Self-discovery. To finally know herself. To become the woman she was meant to be. But Reilly quickly learns that the path to personal growth is anything but predictable.

As she juggles the demands of single motherhood, the relentless world of PR, and the weight of old wounds and new connections, Reilly finds herself on a collision course with the very things she’s been trying to outrun. With spirituality at the core of her path, she challenges everything she thought she knew about purpose, healing, and truth.

By the time the year is up, will Reilly emerge stronger and ready to open her heart again? Or will she discover that the greatest love story is the one she creates with herself?

Reader Reviews

Discover what readers are saying!

Catherine

“Some books possess a rare ability to captivate readers right from the opening line, and Julie’s debut novel, 365 Days of Becoming, is a shining example. Julie’s writing is both fluid and powerful, pulling readers into Reilly’s world so completely that it’s easy to lose track of time. As a debut author, Julie has delivered a remarkable and memorable piece of work. Don’t hesitate to pick up this book—it’s worth every moment.”

Deepika

“For those who love stories about self-exploration and personal transformation, this book is a must-read. The vivid writing, compelling characters, and striking cover make it an unforgettable experience. I devoured it in one sitting, completely captivated.”

Sneha

“This novel beautifully explores the courage it takes to live authentically. Reilly’s journey is deeply relatable, and her character is crafted with such honesty that it’s impossible not to see a bit of ourselves in her.”

Kia

“This book is a captivating read from start to finish. The pacing is excellent, with no dull moments. I read this book in a single weekend and highly recommend it to anyone looking for an uplifting, reflective read.”

Jill

"A love story at its core, author Julie Tomlinson teaches us the power of loving oneself, living your authentic life, new beginnings, and inspiring realizations. Despite the fictional nature of this story, the driving messages and parallels to Tomlinson’s own life made this a vulnerable and raw read."

Behind the Book: A Conversation with the Author